Now, I haven't read all the other replies to your post, XO, and I have to admit I read yours first, as I find your posts to be enjoyable on many levels......but
I would think that in response to your statement, that perhaps he's more of a Christian in his heart BECAUSE he choses not to proselytize.
Not all Christians have the need to do so, nor are they in the business to speak up and force the Word on others. Is there a equation that states....just because one is Christian that one has to proselytize?
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Er.... I thnk that prosetization has always been a rather major part of Christianity.
You don't catch Jews, Zoroastrians or Sikhs havihg tent revivals and sending missionaries all over the place.
Paul may follow Christoian principles, but this does not entail actually being a Christian.