<<So we have a man accused of beating gays who aren't gays with punches that don't land. >>
No, you have a man accused of participating in a group assault on another man whose lip was burst and chin bruised in the assault. FYI, a pulled punch is an assault.
However, we could look at the actions of this little angel in pure factual detail. He (standing 6-3) and two other team-mates accost a pair of inoffensive men leaving a bar, complete strangers, and demand that one of them admit he's gay, throw punches, at least two of which land on the guy's face and voice numerous other homophobic insults.
Now, I dunno. Maybe I don't know America as well as I think I do. Let me ask someone who lives there. How would you characterize this guy's behaviour? Normal boisterous fun? Is this the way you yourself like to act when you go out for the evening? Is this how you'd like to see your own son act?
Why are we beating around the bush with this guy? It is as obvious as obvious can be, this guy is a low-life piece of shit, a coward, a bully and a scum-bag. What else can he be, to act like that? Who can possibly defend him?
Then, as if that's not bad enough, he and his pals hire a crack ho to strip for them at a party - - OK, fair enough, who are they going to get to strip for their party, Scarlett Johannson? - - and then they rip her off, insult her, or otherwise piss her off to the point where she's gonna cry rape on them. Again, a little understanding of human nature and life comes in handy sometimes. In my general experience, which includes frat parties, which includes pre-wedding stag parties, etc., you treat the girls right, with respect, and like decent human beings, and you will never, ever have a problem with them, because this is their livelihood. As I've said, I don't know anyone who has ever been charged with rape by an entertainer, rightly or wrongly, and if rape charges followed stag parties even once in a thousand times, there just wouldn't be stag parties. These guys, to merit a rape charge from their own stripper, either raped her or did something else to majorly piss her off, although since the boys seem like such modest, reticent young men, we'll probably never know what. All we can surmise is that probably (as in 90% likely) they did something really bad to merit this woman's ire, with a 10% chance that maybe this is just one crazy, angry crack ho. However, given the team's previous performance in the gay-bashing arena, I would say that the odds of them treating a crack ho properly and fairly are slim to nonexistent.