And no, it's neither their skin color nor their physical size nor police brutality.
What keeps getting ignored, in both these cases......that no one is talking about, is compliance. When an officer indicates you need to do something, you do it.....period. If you feel "disrespected" or something bad was done by the officer, you bring it up to their watch commander afterwards. File a formal complaint. What you don't do is to tell the officer to just leave you alone. And you sure as hell don't charge them. You comply, end of story
What's happening, right now, with all this attention folks like Obama & Holder are creating, with the idea that somehow the Police need to do a better job of being....less threatening, I guess, is enabling future situations, where-as, folks will feel that compliance is merely an option.....and your going to have far more of these incidents.