and 5), When Christians have done "really awful things"....news flash, they're NOT Christian. Being American doesn't require acting a certain way, it requires you be born and standing in America. Being Christian does mandate a certain level of living righteously.
Who gets to make that determination? You? The Pope? The Patriarch of Constantinople? The Archbishop of Canterbury?
This is the source of most of the conflict within the Christian Community.
Fatman, despite Sirs answer, the truth is that one can do really awful things and still be a Christian.
knowing what it means to be Christian, and walk a path that Christ would advocate allows me the ability to judge when others are not
The quote above from Sirs is very much incorrect. It is not a matter of judging whether one is a Christian or not. He does not have that ability. As a Christian we do have the duty to correct someone who has taken actions that are contrary to Church teachings. This can be found primarily in the letters of Paul and Peter.
What should never be forgotten is the infinite love of the Christ. Even when one has committed a mortal sin, he or she must always remember that Christ's love is not in dispute. That is not to say that the ramifications of one's sin go away by any means. We are responsible for our sin and the temporal harm we cause to others and ourselves. We are also responsible for the celestial harm we cause to God. At the same time, we must always remember the Passion and never doubt that we can seek forgiveness. That forgiveness does not come from Sirs or any temporal figure, but from the suffering on the cross and the resurrection of Christ. We
never require the approval of people such as Rich or Sirs.
Never.
They are sinners, as are we. They are in no better position to judge one's heart and faith than any other sinner. We only need to reconcile with Christ. Always remember, when anyone gets on his or her high horse, that Peter denied Christ three times. All of the apostles fled when the going got tough in Jerusalem. Only John and Mary stood under the Cross and dare to be marked as the followers of an executed criminal. So, if the pillars of the Church, Christ's closest companions - the Apostles, can commit such a grievous sin - you can trust that one's Christianity is not lost through even mortal sin. That isn't a license to sin as one wishes (which should be obvious to anyone who reads the Bible or any church doctrine), but no one here has the authority to cast anyone else from the ranks of Christianity.