It's funny but Jacques Baudrillard, in a really famous essay written just after 9-11, said pretty much the same thing as you, plane, and even referenced the same movie. (Too bad I never saw it, I'd probably like it.) Baudrillard's thesis was that the U.S.A. is hated all over the world, in truth as a symbol of modernity and the death of old cultures, but rationalized in most people's minds (people who can't just admit that they hate the modern world) in terms of political causes. So that the real reasons for anti-American hatred remain buried in the unconscious mind, while the individual chatters about "imperialism" or "racism" or "colonialism" or "fascism," etc. In reality, he hates America because it symbolizes the whole oppressive modern world.
For me the really novel part of the Baudrillard essay was where he analyzed the success of Independance Day in the U.S. itself, where of course people are not really comfortable with voicing overtly "unpatriotic" or anti-American sentiment and nevertheless were very enthusiastic in their response to Independance Day because "it's only a movie" - - i.e., an unfulfilled fantasy - - and they could rejoice vicariously in the destruction of the symbols of modernity (and hence of the modern world itself) without having to feel unpatriotic.
Baudrillard then went on to 9-11 and the wild rejoicing that took place everywhere, overtly in many cases, despite the sober words of world leaders, but even in America, where he felt that many Americans, particularly those more or less defeated by the modern world, felt a sense of liberation, but one they dared not voice.
The only problem with the Baudrillard essay, from my own POV, was that it seemed barely cognizant of the fact that we were dealing with a real-life catastrophe. Those were real people jumping from the towers, it wasn't a movie, those immensely moving shrines and photos that you could see everywhere were for real fathers and mothers and sons and daughters who were alive on 9-10 and gone the next day. But I think that movies like Independance Day fill an unacknowledged need in a lot of people all over the world, a kind of resistance to artificial structures of glass, stone and concrete and a world of paved streets and sidewalks. We lost something, and Independance Day raised the hopes (fantasies is probably the better word) of getting it back again.