Do you feel as if your decisions in day to day life affect the world around you , and the decisions of the rest of the people in your environment also ripple your pond?
I think they do, but only in minuscule ways, most of the time. I wish my neighbor with the two yappy dogs were more sensitive to their incessant barking. I can shut them up for about half an hour with a vinegar solution and a water pistol, but they never seem to just STFU when they see me coming, even when I am packing.
I drive defensively. When I see the light is red, I slow way down. Usually I can scoot right through, since the light changes before I can get to it. I always look in the rearview mirror. On a couple of occasions, I have seen some clown barreling up behind me, so I have changed lanes to get out of his way. Once the guy sailed through a red light and surely got a ticket from the goddamn camera. On another, the other guy T boned a van. The light was green, so I slipped on through. I don't think anyone was hurt. Had I not dodged him, he would have rear ended me.
So what I did changed my life and that of the guy that T boned the van and whomever was driving the van.
It is amazing the number of people who think they will get there sooner if they speed up to the light, slam on the brakes and burn rubber when the light changes.