Thanks Kramer and BSB. He was 21 years older than me....never even lived in the same house with him....but he was an older brother I always looked up to. It's sad because they have made a lot of progress on prostate cancer and they even caught his fairly early 5 years ago...but he had an aversion to traditional medicine....so he refused chemo, refused prostate removal, refused drugs...instead choosing herbal clenses, mega-vitamins, acupuncture, special diets, ect....so I guess we all live and sometimes die with our own decisions. I will really miss him. Thanks again for your sentiments.
ps: BSB sorry about your brothers.