What right do those scumbags have to the money I earned for my family, friends, and charities?
===========================================================
Duh! If you want it to go to a charity, donate it while you are alive.
When you are dead, it does not matter to you because, again, you are dead. Dead, dead, dead.
You can give $13,000 to as many people as you wish with zero tax consequences to anyone each and every year.
Since you are so filthy rich, I recommend that you get a good lawyer immediately as scumbag protection.
If I inherited $5 million, getting by on 65% would not be a problem for me.