I never intended to cut any shit.
Do you realise how much trouble you are having composing a good answer to this question?
I think this is reveiling enough already .
I am not even asking for an answer I will agree with , just a starting point , whether I agree or not.
Take your time , the origional purpose of marrage is an important bit , and your notion of it might be diffrent than I would say.
I will indeed feel obligated to answer in all seriousness , if you ever do.