You, Plane, seem to be talking about this issue as if it were a disagreement about a whether or not making jokes about homosexuals is okay. This has, for whatever reason, resulted in your recent post containing jokes about homosexuals after the apparently sarcastic admonition "When gay people are ridiculed , you MUST NOT laugh , you shall not laugh, this is IMPERITIVE." In reply to that statement I asked "Why?" I also asked you why you think the jokes you shared ridicule homosexuals. You answered neither question.
I can only guess that your sharing of the jokes was intended to somehow make a point that if a person thought those jokes were funny, then that person would have no reason to object to what Coulter said. That some jokes about homoesexuals can be funny does not mean that using the word 'faggot' as Coulter did is funny. And the fact that Coulter said it as part of a joke does not negate the criticism of the statement. The criticism isn't about whether or not what Coulter said was a joke. No one is denying that it was a joke. The criticism has to do with the intent and the meaning of the joke.
Or is your point in all of this to suggest that there is no such thing as a bigoted joke?