I feel your pain , in this instance my first eight words were ignored and my second clause given wrong interpretation.
Then pretend you're me, and explain yourself.
You are participateing volentarily , I consider you to be generous , in that you expound on your thinking in a real effort to make it clear.
You have a right to call a halt to further clarifacation at any time , this is a volentary effort you are already generous with.
Thought is one of Mankinds cheif advantages over nature ,valuable stuff, I am very happy that you are not stingy with yours.