<<My grandfather fought in the German Army in World War II. I'm in the interesting position of having had both Grandfathers fight in World War II, on opposite sides.>>
What would have been interesting was if the two of them met. I had a next-door neighbour who was one of the British troops that captured the Greek island of Kos from the Italians and was then taken prisoner by the Germans when they in turn invaded the island. I have a very good friend whose dad was one of the Italian defenders of Kos, imprisoned by British forces until "liberated" by the Nazis. I always meant to have them both over to our house at the same time, but it never happened. We didn't socialize with our friend's mum and dad, so there never seemed to be anything to invite them over for.
<<He was conscripted and not a member of the Nazi party by any means. He fought on the Eastern front against the Soviets.>>
Where most of the Nazi atrocities and war crimes were committed. I bet he didn't know anything, did't see anything and didn't hear anything.
<< One thing you might not be considering is that the Nazis would also do harm to one's family if you did not fight. >>
I find that very hard to believe. I saw the film Sophie Scholl, the true story of a 20-year-old university student executed for her role in the White Rose, a totally ineffective German anti-Nazi resistance cell. Her father went to the court to protest the proceedings. As far as I could tell from the film, no reprisals were taken against the Scholl family. I've read numerous reports of German Jehovah's Witnesses executed for refusing to serve or even refusing to salute the flag. Nothing that I'm aware of that indicates the families were punished.
<<Plus, there was no Internet or 24/7 news service at that time. Not everything the Nazis did was known to the people, especially in more rural parts of Germany.>>
That's a valid point. Probably about the most valid one that could be raised in the defence of the bastards. They just didn't know and had no reasonable way of knowing. The Propaganda Ministry's grip on all sources of public information was absolute. Every source of information available to the average 18-year-old was going to tell him the same story. I used to wonder if maybe it was such a good thing to kill the bastards if it wasn't really their fault. I mean it had to be done, but was it really an occasion for joy when one of them died or got seriously fucked up? In the end, I couldn't buy it. No matter what they'd been told, when they actually came face-to-face with the victims of their atrocities, they would have had to see the humanity that they were tasked with eradicating, and they had to sense the falseness of the Nazi narrative. Similarly just to listen to their Nazi leaders - - if the listener had any basic humanity at all - - would have been to reveal the profound inhumanity at the base of their philosophy, the cruelty, the glorification of violence and force. I don't believe in "innocent" Nazis. They were presented with choices and enough information filtered through to enable them to make a moral choice. Those who chose Hitler deserved to die for their choice.