kimba1, I randomly selected a pro-life organization from google. You will read that they also turned out to be religiously based. I visited
http://www.prolifeaction.org/ and asked them your question.
Here is their reply:
Thanks for writing.
As for the questions this blogger raises, some parsing is required. Let me preface my responses by saying that they reflect the Catholic Church's teaching, which is also that of our organization, the Pro-Life Action League, as well as my own personal beliefs.
I'll give the short answers first.
> if a family has 7 kids
> is it a sin for the father to have a vasectomy?
Yes.
> or to use birth control?
If by "birth control" she means contraception (condoms, the pill, an IUD, other forms of hormonal birth control, withdrawal, etc.), then the answer is also "yes". (See further clarification below.)
> would the prolife people [object?]
Some would. Some wouldn't. Sadly -- nay, tragically, I would say -- pro-lifers are divided on this question.
> or the church object?
It depends on what is meant by "the church". The Catholic Church has always condemned contraception. So too did every Protestant denomination until 1930.
Since then, most every Protestant denomination has changed its teaching to accept it. However, in more recent years, many individual Protestants have begun to "return", if you will, to the traditional Christian teaching that contraception is sinful, although as far as I can tell, it's rather rare to see an entire Protestant church as a whole take such a strong stand against the sinfulness of contraception.
> Later on she clarified to someone that her question was based on; if
> a family had numerous children, would that be a factor. For her sake,
> her actual statement is:
>
> "I`m just asking would having a ton of kids be a exemption"
The short answer is no. It's wrong for a couple to use contraception if they have no kids or if they have 7, or 10, or 15, or however many, as contraception is absolutely antithetical to the self-giving nature of sex.
The sexual act - or, the marital act or one-flesh union - is a physical expression of a couple's marriage commitment. In a very real sense, when a couple engages in one-flesh union, they are renewing their wedding vows, an essential component of which is to accept children lovingly from God (cf.
Gen. 1:28, 2:24; Luke 1:38).
Just as it it wrong for a couple to claim that they can be "faithful" to each other throughout their marriage without each and every sexual act to be with each other, so it is also wrong for a couple to claim that their marriage is open to the possibility of children without each and every sexual act being so.
For a more detailed explanation of why this is, see this post from my personal blog, in which I informally debated with another pro-lifer who saw nothing wrong with contraception:
http://jdjansen.blogspot.com/2007/04/contraception-debate.htmlLet me qualify this by saying, however, that this does *not* mean that a married couple is not morally permitted to use natural family planning (which is often erroneously, and regrettably, referred to as "the rhythm method" or "calendar rhythm") to monitor a woman's fertility and elect to make love when she is not fertile. There is a crucial distinction between NFP and contraception; that NFP is morally acceptable is explained in more detail in a few articles I link to here:
http://tinyurl.com/ypz7ayFor what it's worth, you might also be interested in this write-up of a conference we sponsored last year on contraception:
http://prolifeaction.org/home/2006/cinta3.htmI hope my responses have been helpful. Please let me know if you have any further questions.
Yours for Life,
John Jansen
Co-Director
Generations for Life
Youth Outreach of the Pro-Life Action League
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