"We used to not recognize that women could even be raped by their husbands."
Could not or didn't? Is this a physical (It physically occured" or a legislative "Is it against the law" issue? And, how do you prove since this since any wives probably do not report it? How do you realisitically attack this issue? Education? I know of someone who says her husband raped her several times in the middle of the night because she wasn't interested in sex because she said his general attitude "stunk". Did this really happen? Where is the proof? How far do we go just based upon an accusation? Is trust of the provider of this information versus trust ofthe alleged abuser an issue? If so, how much? Whom do you believe, without concrete medical evidence? Is it against the law anyway? et al.
Well, I am DEFINITELY NOT in favor of rape of any kind! That being said, is this a law? If so, then perhaps we need to evaluate how closely we want to legislate matters within your individual home. Not out in society at large, but in your bedroom.
As a example, do I agree with homosexuality? Nope. Do I think we should have anti-homosexual video systems to assure it doesn't happen in someone's home, NO.