lanya,
You used his childrens status as some kind of gotcha.
Fact is you supported afghanistan. Using your logic your sons of age should have enlisted for that fight. And any others that came along during their term of service.
And if they didn't, then somehow your comments on either engagement have no merit.
What nonsense.
We had the Marine recruiter talk to us when my older son was still in fall semester of senior year of highschool. They wanted him, he wanted to join. Then a military eye doctor said he had tiny cataracts and that was it for the military. He tried again after 9/11. Army, Navy, Air Force, even the Coast Guard. He thought surely they'd take people if a war was waged, but they didn't change the rules for that yet.
If in WW2 someone said, "This is a fight to the death," and yet his children were off going to college and whatnot, you betcha people would say, what is wrong with this picture?