Why is that a cop out? You seem to think her statement was about Edwrads. I don't.
I think her statement was more about people hiding behind rehab, a point i agree with.
It's a copout because I am asking you to take a stand and clearly state your personal opinion on the subject. You avoid doing so by saying "My approval is not required" or words to that effect. I didn't say your approval was required, I just asked whether you approved.
Faggot is a perfectly good word. So are nigger, bitch, spic and kike. I don't use them often. But not because i disapprove of the words, i just don't think the use of those words enhance personal relations. I certainly don't think they should be banned. I don't think they should be on some list that automatically double prison time because you are now guilty of hate.
Neither do I, but I still disapprove of the use of such words. I have never said that someone who uses such language should be subjected to legal action. I have said, however, that people who DO use such language ought to be criticized and must deal with the consequence of their offensive behavior. I believe people have been banned from this website for being offensive. I know we have used many "bad" words (like the big, bad F) here but there is a limit - however arbitrary - to how much a poster can get away with. If I started posting topics like "N*GGERS ARE THE CAUSE OF THE DOWNFALL OF AMERICA!" I am sure I would be invited out without much delay. (Though frankly, I never did like NAGGERS.)
You have stated that such words do not "enhance personal relations." In fact, as a good general rule they tend to offend most people. Of course, when groups who have similar prejudices get together, their use may even enhance those relations. But generally, reasonable people understand that these words are offensive and understand why. If you do choose to use such language, you should expect disapproval. If, as you have stated in this thread, you view such expressions of disapproval as a form of punishment, you ought to expect to be (by your definition) punished when you use such language. In the case of this thread, of course, you have not used such language (except for purposes of legitmate debate on their own merit). My criticisms of your posts is based on the merit of your arguments, not your choice of words.