at age 43 she is about to give birth to her second child in about one week...
Perhaps you can answer for XO then. Is she stupid, crazed with lust, or actually wanted to get pregnant?
No, not stupid.
Crazed....? NOpe
Lustful...well of course...
but wanting to get pregnant.....no.
My beloved sister, who is having her second child next week, was my mother's fifth child. My mother birthed my sister at age 43. Blessed to have a healthy baby. And, yes, of course, she was not planned, but of course and by God she was loved.
Mistakes are very much a part of life. The problem with society, imo, is that want for perfection, and we desire the rewards of perfection. But what defines such perfection? What defines it? NO ONE.
There is more to any story if we are willing to listen, read up, fall down, get back up, suffer, love, live, and reconcile. That's what life is about.
As for mistakes....some "mistakes" are not mistakes, nor are they meant to brush under the table. The Lord I believe in so strongly has a plan. My family and the love therein is proof of such Love...and yet in there lies our own imperfection. Obama, Biden, McCain, Palin, Bush and Bush2 all have good points. All have imperfections.
Who among us has such a perfect life?