I don't know about the first story but the talks with the insurgents should have broken down. Did you even read their demands?
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So what?
What harm could there possibly be in talking?
Is not talking always better than killing?
This is Juniorbush's problem, too. He refuses to talk with anyone unless they concede the major points before even sitting down to talk.
He does this in Cuba, Iraq, Iran, with Hezbollah and North Korea. And what are the results? He has no results, which is the same as failure.
Worse than failure, because there is not even a mechanism to talk to the opposition.
The US refused to talk to the PRC for 20 years. Now it's a major creditor and partner.
You can sum up word refusing to talk in two words: GUARANTEED FAILURE.