Make them compulsory and we have consensus.
No we don't. Who sets the curriculum? Who determines proper childrearing practices. When did the state become in charge of this?
You say the classes are already in place!! You're making this harder than it is. You're trying to make it out like I'm advocating schools telling kids whether they should raise their kids as jews or Baptists when the parents are one of each. I'm advocating teaching kids how to communicate with each other so when problems like this arise in their marriages, they can resolve them without someone getting shot or smacked around.
Is there some ideological problem you have with teaching kids that when a baby shats its diaper, you change it asap? Is that something that goes against your fucking freedom to make your own decisions? I just don't get it. Is it just that you think that a mother should have a choice in whether or not to give her kid diaper rash? Are kids viewed as so much property to you? WTF, dude?
Even if that is the case that you think a mother should have the right to not change a kid's diaper and to actually create diaper rash, then by all means, no one is forcing her into not allowing it to happen by telling her that it WILL happen. Hell, maybe the knowledge will enlighten her to her choices of how to create rashes! Either way, she has choices.
I can really understand your hesitance in having licenses for childbirth. I get that. I realize that is a radical solution no matter how much I believe it is nearly a necessary solution to the rampant childbirth rate and abuse rate. Your unwillingness to go along with that is absolutely respectable and understandable on my end.
What I don't understand is this watered-down version of preparation for childrearing that you yourself have said is already in place. As far as I know, every OB/GYN informs an expecting mother of where she can go and take child-birthing classes. My wife and I went and it reduced our stress over the impending birth date immensely. Knowing what was coming took a lot of the terror out of it by letting us run through it in our heads a few times prior.
Teaching kids in high school that diapers are not one a day items is just a no-brainer to me in light of the FACT that my wife had a client who actually THOUGHT THAT! Now, if this kind of thing is offensive to your ideological sensibilities, then we have a non-starter here. I'm talking basics that have no effect on freedoms of choice. How to give a baby a bath and whether or not you should bathe your baby is not the same as you must never spank your child. It just isn't. And if you think it is, you're wrong.
If you think it is, then you have to be against teaching driver education in school as well.