There are surely some ugly Black women. But there are some ferociously ugly White women as well. Barbara Bush comes to mind. Of course, there are no beautiful 90 year old women, and the best a man can to at 90 is look somewhat distinguished. Mother Nature uses beauty to promote procreation. After reproduction is impossible, women tend to get ugly. But facelifts and cosmetics are effective to a degree. Jane Fonda is still rather attractive in that series on Netflix.
The old saying is that a woman falls in love with a man with the intent that she can change him
A man falls in love with a woman in hopes that she will remain the same.
Both are disappointed, as a general rule.
Men do not become sterile at the age that women reach menopause, so they stay attractive to women longer. Evolution favors women that bear many children in the time allotted. As many as 12 are possible. Evolution favors men that also produce many children, and older men who have survived pass their ability to survive and prosper to as many women as their culture will allow, both overtly and covertly.
The concept that humans are designed by God to have only one mate is a religious one: we are, after all, primates, and apes (orangs, chimps, binabos and gorillas) are polygamous, promiscuous, or both. Religious people like to think we are ideally like penguins or puffins, who will pine away when their mate expires. I suspect that there are far fewer monogamous birds and other animals than we think there are. But at any rate, we are primates, not birds.
