it's all about intent....
but many young Blacks enjoy the fact that they can easily get away with saying it.
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Of course they do. Everyone likes to have some special exclusive thing they can do.
It's like living in a lily-white gated community. where Blacks have been excluded by a lack of money, or belonging to a Country Club where you have to be endorsed by some specified number of members to be approved for membership.
It does not bother me that Black people (pretty much always males) can say "nigger" and that I cannot.
It does not bother me that I am excluded from Augusta's famous golf course.
When we were visiting Westminster Abby in London, we had been walking all day and I actually SAT DOWN in one of the pews. Some old biddy with a lot of lace and a silly hat came clacking over on the heels and waving her arms, saying "you can't sit there! These pews are the property of the MEMBERS! No one else is allowed to sit in them!"
She looked like Hyacinth Bucket (Boo-Kay) of that British sitcom Keeping up Appearances.
I said, "Oh, I thought that anyone could sit anywhere in a house of God". My mother gestured for me to get up, which I did s l o w l y just to make a point.
That sort of exclusivity, I did not appreciate. Their ladyships and lordships were nowhere in sight, after all, and this woman was pretty much acting like an angry Yorkie with the gift of speech.