<< . . . I don't want to hear any more complaining about houses being bulldozed , that action, done in rage or not , gives the occupants a chance to get out alive , bombing the bus fails to do that. If the Palestinians are legitimate to bomb the bus than the Isrelis are legitimate to get drastic too.>>
You're comparing apples to oranges. The Israeli equivalent to the bus bombing is not bulldozing houses, but firing a missile into an elementary school or a crowded marketplace or apartment building.
<<You are going to have to get over the notion that one side is "right " and "rightious" and the other is not , neither side needs violence at all , except that the other side needs it.>>
The reality, and my argument itself, are that BOTH sides resort to lethal violence against the other, so that a first step in resolving the problem is to stop demonizing one side or the other as unfit negotiating partners or as people who only understand the language of violence and killing.
<<By the Way I seriously doubt that any bus bomber ever took the life story of his victims into account before killing them , why does his life story matter more than theirs?>>
It's all about motivation, and motivation is all about root causes. You already know why the Israelis bulldoze homes and fire missiles into crowded marketplaces and you know their life stories enough to understand how they contributed to the current political and tactical positions that they hold. His life story doesn't "matter" any more than theirs or anyone else's, but if you don't understand it, you won't really understand fully his motivation, and thus you will not fully understand one of the root causes of the conflict.
What do you have against hearing the life story of the bus bomber in his own words or in the words of his surviving loved ones? Is there something you are afraid you will be told, something that you no longer will be able to avoid?