So you think an attraction to Phoebe Cates has nothing to do with sex, but is more like an appreciation for a work of art?
Can be. I'm not homosexual, but I can appreciate a good looking guy.
I'm sure there are plenty of guys that are attracted to Phoebe Cates in a sexual manner, but that is not the only way to appreciate her looks.
Fer instance, I think she's attractive, but she's not my type so I have never fantasized about her.